Fellow NAS folks,
I have seen the light. After months of tinkering with my home brew NAS, I was always getting an error. So one day last week a light went off in my head, mind you a rather dim one, but it was a light never the less. And what was that light? To get this tinkerer an LSI 9211-8i SAS card. And magically all the errors messages have gone away. It works, my home brew NAS actually works with no errors. Even ZFS is happy, no more scary undecipherable message from the mighty ZFS.
To all the tinkerers that want to make their own NAS do yourself a favor and get an LSI 9211-8i SAS card, or some other model of SAS card from LSI. Your connectivity headaches will go away. It wasn't too expensive, I spent about $70 bucks for mine and it was totally worth it.
Happy NASsing.
Bart