Yeah i thought this might be the case whenever i get to my OMV installation.
That at least explains the NVME missing.
Still i cannot boot. Somewhere it was mentioned that there is no legacy boot option. I think when deleting the Secure boot keys from the BIOS it is the same as legacy boot. Still doesnt work up to here.
Ok, weird update: I unplugged the SATA drives, booted from systemrescue bootstick. replugged SATA drives and now they are found at BIOS POST. So that part is solved.