found this thread after realizing I haven't received healthchecks messages for over two weeks. Similar issue - same errors from postfix (proxymap and cleanup connection refused). Reboot doesn't help. Uninstalling flashmemory plugins restores the service, but would be great if anyone had a proper solution.
The correct solution at the moment is described in the post above. Install the test Flash plugin, after removing the plugin that was installed from the repository. As for me, the latest test version works as it should...