Well after alot more searching and head scratching trying to figure the differences between my other computers on my network the one I am having problems with is on windows version 20h2 where the others are lower, should not matter. But what I noticed in group policy even though it said it would allow insecure guest logins in the registry it was still set on 0. I did not do the whole powershell additions according to the "How to connectwin10toOMVpdf" I just changed the one value [HKEY_LOCAL_MACHINE\SYSTEM\CurrentControlSet\Services\LanmanWorkstation\Parameters] "AllowInsecureGuestAuth"=dword:1
now that I have it working dangerously I will go in and make a more secure setup..
I figured it definitely had to be my computer as everything else connected with no problems.
My other server connected with no problems I assume because it was not set for guest or guest only after looking into it closer.
Through all of this I got to read and watch alot of material, This Microsoft page helped me the most.
Thanks for all the material and information on your forum I have used so far and have yet to use.