☹️ that's way out of my skillset. Think I should better but another usb dongle that is known to be compatible with Linux.
Thanks everyone, do appreciate you jumping on to help.
To be honest, it is actually simpler than it looks and sounds, but with a bit of a discovery and learning curve may seem daunting and not worth the hair-pulling. Mainly a few unwritten steps that the 'uninitiated' won't know right off the bat.
It is still a bit difficult to find a good, working USB wifi dongle that works on Linux ootb. Takes some research, and the support can vary.
I have a USB dongle in my kit that used to work brilliantly and without extra work, but testing it on OMV and my other Linux systems right now, it seems that it doesn't like newer kernels, at least not without compiling something.
if you have room, and a slot, something like this might be useful, though not that cheap. Anything with an Intel chip should Just Worktm
Should be faster than the USB dongle, I think, too.