I know you only want to provide a solution and help me, but your proposal is quite the opposite direction of what I want. I really didn't wanted to anger you with my reaction, it is just that you completely misunderstood my point. I'm not a native speaker and have no experience with OMV and I tried to make my need clear in my first post which somehow failed. Sorry for that.
You have to admit that I never asked for a proposal on how to design my storage stack. In fact it is already used in production and there is not even the chance that there will be anything changed on this side. Adding additional hardware or software with additional complexity and failure sources is totally out of question, no matter if it is expensive or not.
Regarding your suggestion with the SAN: It would in fact be an option to install OMV in a KVM VM with just a small root FS and export a folder with NFS and import it from within the KVM guest and use this as the storage pool. It would use the virtualized network then, and not be limited by a wired network but I can't predict the impact on IO. This is of course not a true SAN but it would behave similar. Just an idea that came to my mind I have no idea if this is a good approach.
Anyways, if someone has a hint on how to create a "shared folder" pointing at my FS please let me know!