Hey, thanks for the update. In the meantime i have bought RTL8125B card... and it works great with my HP T620 machine.
I have set up the jumbo frame to 9000 to get more speed because it was limited to around 200MB/s with default mtu. Now i have stable 290MB/s with FTP, and after some tweaking, stable 280-290MB/s with SMB. Iperf3 shows 294MB/s both ways.
I am also having little issues with write speeds on SMB, when i tweaked it to get better read... then write speeds dropped. Its still a matter of tuning but i dont have time to play with it more right now.
I am using second identical RTL8125B card in my PC, don't bought 2.5G switch yet because these are a bit pricey. 5.10 included kernel drivers worked great "out of the box", the only issue was complete lack of communication trough LAN with my mashine after adding the card. I had to use TV and a keabord to run omv-firstaid to fix things up.